Guys have that one go to date spot...in any city

I had such high expectations of doing such a great job tracking my life in Paris and somehow, without knowing many people, life has become busy! My over an hour commute to work certainly does not help but still, I need to be better. I wanted to go back and recount all my days but now my experiences might come at random. That's okay - I just want to look back later in life and remember the experiences I had.

When I lived in Boston there seemed that the guys had a set (small!) group of bars that were their go to date spots. Boston is a smaller city, so not surprising. When I was younger it was Silvertone, which I liked. But I always found it amusing. Now wouldn't you know I move to Paris and out of five dates so far...FOUR have taken me to the same bar! In all fairness, one was because we were walking by.

Let me introduce you to - La Fourmi:

It is actually a very fun, laid back bar. Not at all fancy and actually really fun on a Sunday evening when no one wants the weekend to end and it is packed. This is where the True Parisians apparently hang. And according to Time Out it was one of the top 100 bars in Paris.

One thing I love about Paris and would like to see American restaurants & bars adopt - you can sit at a table even if you are just having drinks. And you can stay as long as you like - no one will rudely stare you down while doing so.

It is right next to La Cigalle which is a concert venue which I am interested in checking out as well, need to dig to see who performs there.

Address: 74 rue des Martyrs
Closest Metro = Pigalle

A California Inspired Restaurant in Pigalle

I love all of the bistros in Paris but sometimes you need a break and need a little something from home. I had read about this place on Ten Days which is a great offbeat guide to Paris covering the more up and coming areas of the city. And one day I realized it was very close to where I lived so I took a walk over for a late lunch/early dinner at the bar. You read that right - AT THE BAR! In Paris, sitting at a bar is not common let along eating at one. It is something I miss from the States, especially since I moved here solo.

So if you are craving a draft Brooklyn lager, a good burger or tacos - definitely give Le Depanneur in Pigalle a try. I recently took a friend from London there and if she was digging it wishing she had one in London.

Signing the Lease

This will be a quick one but I thought the rental process in Paris is quite interesting, I felt like I was actually purchasing a home. I showed up one evening to sign the lease, do an inspection and collect the keys. What I did not realize is that the owners would be there and six of us would sit around a table signing away our lives. Once that was done we did the inspection and it was not just me saying everything's fine, an inspector came and probably spent an hour going through the home (we then split the cost of this) and then go room by room and review a complete inventory of the apartment - and their kitchen is stocked. All in all it was a two or so hour process.

I will say the couple that owns my apartment are really wonderful, a great French couple in their 60's I would say. Lucky for me, I believe I am the first to rent their home. The furniture is beautiful and they left the place with plenty in it so I have everything I could really need.

Now to figure out the French washer/dryer combo.

A "Permanent" Home

If you move abroad and are assigned agencies to "look after you" and "help make the move seamless" - I will give you this advice, always remember they are there to check off a task as complete so you ALWAYS have to be your own advocate, even if you have to push a little.

I looked at a lot of apartments in Paris and the woman who brought be around was good. But quality and quantity are two different things - I obviously was not moving into the one apartment that had construction outside so the shutters were forced shut. Nope, dungeon living is not for me, sorry! I found a wonderful apartment near St Michel metro and was truly crushed when I did not get it, someone else had put in their application first. So I kept searching which was tough as I am trying to also get settled in my job.

The quest continued until the agency said I MUST select one of the apartments today. Mind you - in my contract I had up to 60 days of temporary housing so truly there was no reason I had to choose then and there while I was already asking them about moving out in a few months because I knew in my heart it was not right. That question did not phase them, they just wanted to be done with me.

I had lunch over the weekend with a friend of a friend, a true Parisian, who lives in the 9th and we strolled along Rue Des Martyrs, it was a great neighborhood with a market along the road (food & antiques) on Sundays. This lunch motivated me to go home, hope on the computer and keep looking. I expanded my search and found a place online that honestly seemed too good to be true. A tad over my budget (you only live in Paris once, right?) but it looked really nice and like a home, or at least something that I could call my home for two years. I sent out an email but as it was Sunday I knew I would have to await a response on Monday.

Long story short, the agent was great and I ran off in the afternoon to meet him at the apartment and as soon as I walked in I new it was the one. Two bedrooms plus an office with a futon, a great entryway, actual dining room table - it was perfect!

After a lot of paperwork - I am happy to say that this is my Parisian home and oh how I loooooove it!